A daylily pops into the garden for but a single day. Collectively, they make a big impact, but individually, their time is fleeting.
Serving the bees briefly, they take their leave as the sun sets, as if to say “Hello. I’m here. My job was to be beautiful. Now, I bid you adieu..”
Brief as their stay is, it’s a valued contribution that adds to the whole.
Recently, someone who knows that I have worked and volunteered with different nonprofits asked me where she might also offer some time. With kids gone and an empty house, she felt her world getting smaller. She wanted to find an organization where she could contribute and become part of a “tribe” – forming a new, extended family – some place, people, and cause she could belong to.
“Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.” ~ Mohammed Ali
She wanted to do something meaningful – not menial – and to be part of a team. But the work had to fit into her life without feeling obligated. She had her job, her gym, her house, and yard. So maybe once a month – but no commitment.
I listened and smiled. There are many volunteer jobs where you can pop in here and there, including at Homeward Bound. Your contribution will be truly valued as a part of the whole – just as the daylily is. But don’t be surprised if you find yourself still searching for that depth of connection – your tribe.
It takes time to be taught – and to learn – a key role in a volunteer organization. Somehow, we have become so wrapped up in our individual lives that we have forgotten the power of showing up. Don’t expect a ‘here-and-there’ effort to have the same personal impact as things that develop over time.
Work you are invested in – and watch unfold – creates deeper ties and bonds.
Becoming part of something larger than yourself requires presence – and commitment. No matter the cause.
A coming together. Not because someone is holding you accountable. But because you have a love and passion for the work and the difference it makes.
The presence need not be physical; there are many key roles volunteers can assume from a distance or from home. But you are engaged – for the celebrations, frustrations, joys – and sorrows. You are a part of the magic that makes the impossible, possible.
When you give of yourself, you find that sense of purpose, and you discover yourself surrounded by others who share that passion. Before you know it, you have found your tribe.
“In giving you are throwing a bridge across the chasm of your solitude.” ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Wisdom of the Sands
Not everyone has time for a significant commitment. That’s OK. Give what you can. But to find what my acquaintance is missing, expect to give a little more. Trust me. You will be rewarded ten-fold.
“Plant flowers in others’ gardens and your life becomes a bouquet!” ~ Author Unknown
13 thoughts on “Plant Flowers in Others’ Gardens”
Rewarded not only ten fold, but a hundred. Your post speaks truth.
You should know. 🙂
Beautiful and so true!
What a beautiful post, and oh, so true! I wish I lived in your vicinity and could volunteer to pull some weeds in that beautiful garden! 🙂
I wish you did too!! 🙂
I love all your posts, but some, like this one, are more beautiful than others. I agree with Debra, I wish I could have a part in your organization. It is one of the very best there is for all dogs, not just goldens. God Bless all of you.
Thank you, Carol!
What a beautiful post. And the photos are beautiful.
Another beautiful post! May I share it with my friends on Facebook?
Of course…and thank you!
“The meaning of life is to find your gift, the purpose of life is to give it away”…I am so blessed to have found my love, my passion, a common purpose…an amazing tribe. Just beautiful Audrey!
And you are such an important part of it. Thank you for all you do, Lori! (P.S…I’m stealing that quote!). 🙂