Dear Across the States Gardeners,
I am so sorry for your cold and snow. Not to rub it in, but I spent the weekend cutting back and clearing out for spring. The danger of frost is now past and the buds on the roses and trees and emerging Daffodils and Tulips signal that a new season is not far away.
The process revealed a plethora of ladybugs –
and blasted Bermuda grass run amuck.
First a final freeze, and then a huge wind blew through last week.
We lost several trees and it picked up our beautiful arbor and tossed it as if it was made of sticks.
It was the very first thing in the garden – long before there was a garden. As if Jody wanted to plant a stake in the overgrown ground and claim it. Built strong and steady by one of “Da Guys” on our facility crew – it sailed but did not break. The legs have been removed and it will be rebuilt, finding its rightful spot soon along our memorial brick-lined path.
The lower trunks of the plum tree that has been threatening failure for the past five years found the ground. Our garden friend, Joey, gave it a professional haircut and hopefully a couple more years of life.
Our baby German Shepherd puppies and their mama, Annie, have found a generous and willing foster to see them through their upraising.
The woman’s dog passed a couple of months ago and she found her home too quiet and empty. There’s nothing like a litter of puppies to fix that! Annie will be so much happier there – and my focus will shift, as planned, to Skye’s first surgery next Wednesday.
It hurts my heart to think of months of rehab for this boy who is so full of life. But it will ensure that he has a long, active and pain-free life. I will keep the end goal in mind and hope he forgives me.
It occurred to me that in my hard-to-write 2020 year, that I had not documented two of our fosters here. The list was not nearly as long as 2019, but lest they be forgotten…
Rubble was named for the place he was found – in a pile of rubble, stray at only 3-4 months of age. This adorable boy with the crooked ears needed a better start to life, so he came home to stay with us for a bit.
I met with his potential adopters when he was ready. It was a meeting unlike any other. They had recently lost their beloved companion. Usually, people instantly swoon and fall in love with puppies but they seemed reserved. I worried that they were not connecting. When they asked if they could go home and think about it, I thought: well, you already know the answer. They left and Rubble and I started packing up to return home. The phone rang. It was the couple. They were on their way back. I was skeptical until I learned the reason for their hesitation: the man thought that maybe he was being disloyal to their departed dog. The woman told him: this is exactly what he would want and what we need to fill the holes in their hearts. And so Rubble became Rebel. He visits our classes weekly and recently graduated to the big dog school! He could not be more loved.
Louie was born blind in one eye. He was raised outside with two other dogs. He was very thin and clearly had to compete for food. When he lost the second eye to trauma – likely over a food discussion – he was suddenly blind. And apparently useless to his people. They left him in a shelter with a the gaping, untreated wound.
Our Doc removed both eyes for his long term health. When he was ready, he came home with us. We quickly saw the food guarding issue – but we also worked with a trainer to get it under control. Other than that, he was a complete love. He adapted very quickly to house living – navigating steps and obstacles with ease. This blind puppy just needed a little guiding.
His potential family was hand-picked. Regan is a young 10-year-old girl who has raised and donated her birthday money each of the last several years to the dogs. Last Christmas, when she came out to deliver her gift, she fell in love with a 12-year-old Golden with terminal cancer who had been abandoned at the vet. Regan convinced her family that Monk needed to be home with them. She lovingly cared for Monk through his last five and a half months of life.
This Christmas, Regan’s parents surprised her and her siblings by bringing Louie – now Murphy – home. It is clear from reports and photos that adopting a blind dog has been a truly rewarding experience for Regan and her family. Fostering one was for us, as well.
And now…we are caught up!
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Regan is a wonderful and compassionate young lady! How amazing to hear that she’s already focused on giving so generously from herself to love these pups! I read this with true interest! This past summer our Zena, who looks amazingly like Murphy, had one eye surgically removed after we spent quite a while trying to save it. I think she did amazingly well, for what I assumed was a traumatic experience for her. (It kind of was for me!) But we were told there’s a chance she will develop some of the same issues with the other eye and I’ve wondered what would happen, if she were put through that second surgery. I hope it never happens, but seeing Murphy’s adjustment, with love and family support, gives me a little encouragement. Heartwarming!
If Zena does need to have the surgery, I think you will be amazed as how quickly she will adjust. Louie/Murphy had never lived in a home or dealt with steps. But two days in, he was racing through the house with our other dogs up and down the steps into our living room and family room. He was a little nervous walking on leash (another first for him) but bells helped at the start and then our dogs took over and he quickly walked with confidence. Other senses become stronger to compensate – hearing and smell in particular. I hope Zena is not faced with the surgery, but if she is she has everything she needs to succeed…love.
Love in action. So powerful. So needed. Thank you. We need more of it for each other, and especially for innocent suffering children.
Aside from the fact that you have flowers and we have snow, great report. Regan sounds like a very special little girl, and a future rescuer. And I always love the happily ever after reports.
Love this post as we love February’s Newsletter! All the heroic efforts by HBGRR for the medically challenged are stunning. We , of course, supported the Fund for Love event. Skye is the perfect ambassador for all special need dogs. Your care of the memorial garden is equal to your loving care of the goldens. Bravo Audrey. Golden hugs from Poe and family.
What a post – so many happy endings. Best thing I’ve read all month.