Because They Need Us

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It has been a hard week. To lose not one – but two – of our long-time rescue residents and the companion of a devoted volunteer as well.

Balou was a special boy who never got over the loss of his human.

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He was profoundly sad, with trust and mental health issues.

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He was beautiful, deep and unpredictable, and so we knew he would be staying with us. He felt safe here.

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Reacher was adorable and adored.

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Imagine a gigantic bunny stuffed in Golden Retriever costume, rolled over, belly up, with paws flopping every which way just waiting for his rub.

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He went home and came back twice due to his severe separation anxiety. We couldn’t believe no one could see past his issues to his wonderful self. But we were very happy to care for him as long as he needed to stay with us.

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His stay was both too long and too short. Cancer took them both.

That dreaded c-word seems to dog us lately, afflicting too many of the fur kids from our extended Homeward Bound family. Too much at once.

“There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
But when we are certain of sorrow in store
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and sisters I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.”
~ Rudyard Kipling

Are those tears falling from the sky?

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No. Rain. A sudden, soaking, blessed California rain providing a cool, revitalizing drink for our thirsty plants, trees and souls.

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A reminder that there are still unexpected joys in even the most difficult times.

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This weekend, there were quiet chats, remembrances, and hugs – but most importantly – there were people.

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Amazing people who show up despite broken hearts to walk and feed

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snuggle and train –

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and teach dogs how to get up on the furniture –

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because they depend on us.

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For as long as they need us – we are here.

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Sometimes joined together by sorrow – more often, joy.

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Honoring those we have lost by treasuring each day with those who need our care – at Homeward Bound.

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Reacher photos courtesy of Rob Kessel

The Comfort We Bring

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“In almost every garden, the land is made better and so is the gardener.” ~ Robert Rodale

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We created and keep the Memorial Garden as a gift to the dogs we love and have loved – and for those who dedicate so much to our rescue effort.

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Three chance encounters this week reminded me that the work we do at Homeward Bound not only makes life better for the dogs, but provides important comfort to humans as well.

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A woman messaged us asking the status of the dog she had surrendered. It was clear that she had loved him, but for whatever reason, she could not provide a home right now. I was only able to let her know that he was adopted quickly to a good family. And while I reassured her that he would be well-loved, I reminded her that we could not share details to protect the privacy of the adopters. She did not need details. Just peace of mind … with gratitude.

A couple visited this weekend. They wanted to ensure that if something happened to them, their beloved Golden would be cared for. This is important planning that people often overlook. They were delighted with the rescue and were comforted knowing that their fur-child will be safe with us if that time ever comes. They left relieved.

Finally, a glimpse of one of our former adopters who recently lost her sweet boy to cancer. She was sitting quietly with our president in the puppy hut with the golden puppies I showed you last week. One dog never replaces another, but puppies have a special way of melting pain and healing hearts. She has to travel quite a way to visit with us, but here she is in the company of people who truly understand her loss.

“Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow” ~ Swedish Proverb

The garden is our gift.

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The dogs are our shared passion.

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And we’re reminded that the human lives we touch make us better, too.

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“Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That’s why it’s a comfort to go hand in hand.” ~ Emily Kimbrough

New Additions

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April showers bring … April flowers. In abundance.

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The garden is in full bloom making my early morning arrival extra special.

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“An early-morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

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Last week: five long-term residents went home. This week: five arrived in one day. Plus three more for good measure throughout the week.

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The universe seeks balance, I guess. No rest for the weary.

We have a new addition to the garden: a beautiful bird bath.

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Maria made it for Jody, our president who, with her husband, imagined this whole Homeward Bound effort and works tirelessly to sustain it. It’s the perfect centerpiece for her special bed in the garden.

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As beautiful as they are, the flowers in the garden have tough competition from the pups named for flowers. Iris…

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Rose,

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Sweet William,

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and Stephanotis.

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All spoken for – from a long list of families that have waited a long time for these rare arrivals.
Until their going home days…we’ll enjoy watching them bloom, as well.

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Promises Kept

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It wasn’t a lot … but it was something … and in our current state of drought, we are grateful for anything.

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Just after all the dogs were walked,

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dark skies turned to a quick downpour –

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with the promise of more on Tuesday. Every drop and every cool day extends our hope for the garden (which looks lush and full in spring) to survive another California summer.

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“We never know the worth of water till the well is dry.” ~ Thomas Fuller

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Sixty five roses fed on Saturday before the rain … perfect timing.

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And, five of our longer-term residents found their way home this week, including two pairs that we promised to keep together: Lucky … who I wrote about in January

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Dexter and Pogo …

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And handsome Finnegan and Seamus.

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Promise made. Promise kept.
“All that we behold is full of blessings.” ~ William Wordsworth

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Do you suppose Saint Francis can request water on behalf of the dogs’ well-being as well as the garden?

Symphony of Spring

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As the season starts to turn, it seems to happen at a snail’s pace…literally.

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It’s like the orchestra tuning to find that perfect pitch.

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Things seems to unfold in starts and fits, and we keep saying…”just wait.”

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And then, after an almost unbearable pause…the symphony begins.

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Every tree is dressed in leaves and blossoms,

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and every sleepy plant and creature awakens.

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When I am away during the week, I miss the Memorial Garden. This weekend, the return took my breath away.

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The earth is alive;

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the creatures so busy;

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and the gardeners so hardworking –

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except for Yule, who just keeps us company.

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“It was such a pleasure to sink one’s hands into the warm earth, to feel at one’s fingertips the possibilities of the new season.” ~ Kate Morton, The Forgotten Garden

Spring brings the dogs out in force,

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and from their stories, we have learned this: symphonies have more than one movement –

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and you can bury a lot of troubles by digging in the dirt.

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When the hunt is over

What becomes of a retired hunting dog?

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The luckiest are already part of a family where hunting is the exception, not the rule. But for dogs bred and trained to do only one thing, retiring to the sofa is usually not their fate. The lucky ones find their way to rescues or new homes. The transition can take patience and lots of love.

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Recently, seven beautiful hunting dogs made their way to us. Not a Golden among them, of course. Everyone knows that Goldens are too busy being spoiled to go out and work! But we happily offer our help when we have the space. They are all gentle, well-behaved dogs – but this walking on a leash thing is a little new to them. Set them free in a yard and they race; they point; they stare off into the distance as if to say – “let me go find it. That’s my job!”

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“If Heaven made him — earth can find some use for him.” ~ Chinese Proverb

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Hunting dogs are not only bred to be athletes and accustomed to being with people – they are usually highly intelligent. When they can no longer endure the physical demands of a hunt, their passion for working can be stimulated with mental, obedience, and agility challenges.

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These lucky dogs are beginning to discover that they can have a different purpose: best friend and loved companion.

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Some are already available for adoption. We’ll need a little help getting out the word that some of our current guests are spotted on the outside. But lucky are the humans who take home the gold within.

“An earthly dog of the carriage breed;
Who, having failed of the modern speed,
Now asked asylum and I was stirred
To be the one so dog preferred.” ~ Robert Frost

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Thanks to Rob Kessel, our dog photographer, for generously loaning his images.

Our Puppy Bowl

While waiting for the big game to get underway, a far more agile team took to the field. These players are not in it for fame or fortune – they just enjoy the love of play and gladly accept payment in cookies. Get your game face on –

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for the Golden Rule Training Puppy Bowl! We start by sizing up the competition…

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accompanied by a Pregame Staredown…

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And then, Kickoff!

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There he goes…Man in motion!

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Excuse me…Defensive Holding!

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Pooch Kick…

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And Punt Return!

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Hey wait, is that a deflated ball on the field??

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Let’s Huddle Up and rethink our strategy…

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And they’re off…

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Oh, Sack!

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I do believe that is an Illegal Horsecollar Tackle! (I have no idea what that is, but my husband says “use it.”)

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And is that a lame attempt at Illegal Substitution?!

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Hey Ref! Unsportsmanlike Conduct on the field!

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This game is getting out of hand. Two Minute Warning!

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Special Teams. Is it just me, or is it hard to tell who’s on what team?

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No fair, no fair…Piling On!

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Regroup: Calling an Audible

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Hey, that’s what we call a Forward Pass!

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And Fumble!

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This game is rough! Intentional Grounding…

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Nose Tackle…

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Chop Block…

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Running Back…

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and Touch Down!

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Did someone call a Time Out?

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Water Boy!!

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This game was called on account of excessive cuteness…

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Play resumes next week in puppy class!

Worth Working For

Now begins the time when every day turns up another treasure – a hint of how the garden will take shape this year.

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Lots of people appreciate the final result, but a gardener takes pleasure in watching each step that unfolds from their labor.

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Now I know, a refuge never grows
from a chin in the hand and a thoughtful pose
Gotta tend the earth if you want a rose. ~ Indigo Girls

It’s a cliché – and it’s true – anything worth having usually has to be worked for.

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I hear over and over…”We’re looking for a young dog.” What they often really mean is, “I’m looking for a perfect young dog.” They want a dog that is socialized to others, bonds quickly, has impeccable house manners, and knows all those things we call rules (don’t we all?!). When a young dog has all of that going for it, it is because someone invested all of the hard work required to get it there. And you generally won’t find them surrendered.

Our young four-legged kids are generally not “perfect” – because someone didn’t take the time to make them so. But that does not mean they don’t have the potential. Young rescue dogs are often like adolescent humans in so many ways. Willful, a little wild, often insecure, sometimes mouthy, but ultimately trainable and loveable – if someone will just make the effort.

Our Lucky is one of these.

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It pains me to see him passed over because he is still a work in progress, especially at his young age of eighteen months. He’s thoroughly adorable – if a little rebellious – and a bundle of playful energy.

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He would make a perfectly devoted and active companion for someone willing to accept a dog with “some assembly required.”

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With a little time and some work, you’d be amazed at what takes shape.

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“I’m a greater believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it.” ~ Thomas Jefferson

This…

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starts as this.

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This…

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becomes this.

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I’m hoping that someone sees that in Lucky soon.

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(Thanks to Rob Kessel for the photos of Lucky.)